If a man want you, nothing can keep him away,

If he doesnt want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.  Allow your intuition or spirit to

save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.  Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then, heck NO, you can't be "friends".  A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.  Don't settle.  If you feel like he is stringing you along , then he  probably is.

Don't stay because you "think it will get better".  You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The ONLY person you can control on a relationship is  you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different baby mamas.  He didn't marry then when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.  If something bothers you, speak up.

NEVER let a man know everything.  He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior.  Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel that he is more important than you are- even if he has more education or a better job.  Don't make him into a quasi-God or put him on a pedestal.

He is a man, nothing more, nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man--If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending--compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage--deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consist of two WHOLE individuals.. look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.

Dating is FUN..even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes.. when a man always knows where you are, and you are always readily available to him he takes you for granted.

Never move into his mama's house.

Never co-sign for a man  (Hallelujah, thank you JESUS!)

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything you need.  Keep him in your radar, but get to know others.

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You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, and hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them.

BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN SO TAKE A HINT....