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Jan. 6, 2006 - 50 things guys should know 'bout girLz....
1. Don't ever lie to us; -'we always find out.'- 2. Don't say you understand when you don't. 3. Girls are pretty... 4. A system in your car only impresses your homeboys not us. 5. It's good to be sensitive, sometimes. 6. If you did something wrong or even if you didn't, apologize. 7. We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it. -'vain haa..'- 8. We are drama queens. 9. Fashion police do exist. 10. We absolutely DO NOT care about monster trucks, car systems, paintball, or anything else you and your friends talk about. 11. Don't make bets about us; we always find out... 12. you must Shave; no matter how cool you think your goatee or beard or mustache looks, we hate it. 13. Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases from your body, it is not. 14. We are beautiful at all times. 15. we always think we are fat, so laugh at us and tell we're not...
16. You have to tell a girl how you feel about her...we make no assumptions. 17. We hate porn. 18. Girls need food, water, and compliments to survive. 19. we think about you all the time. 20. Being able to make us laugh is very important... 21. We may think you are gay if you wear tighty-whities on a regular basis. 22. Hold our hand. 23. We are not your all-night restaurant... -'don't tell us you're hungry'- 24. If you think for any reason that we don't like you then we probably don't. 25. Having us over while you and your friends play video games does not count as "quality time". 26. Just because we groom ourselves on a regular basis does not mean we're high maintanance. 27. Never comment on how much a girl eats...ever. 28. We're typically smarter than you...so get over it and stop whining when we get better grades than you. 29.The ability to play the guitar will help you get laid. 30.Walks in the rain, kisses on the forehead, and cooking dinner for us will be nice... 31. Anything you do or say to another girl that you wouldn't want us to know about is considered cheating. 32. If we can admit that we're wrong, you'd better be able to do the same.
33. it's hard for us to say sorry...
34. Think before you speak...it'll make a world of difference. 35. Not all girls kiss on the first date, get over it...we're creatures of mystery. 37. Make fun of our clothes...-'prepare to die.'- 38. We don't always expect you to pay for us, but it doesn't hurt to at least offer everyone once in a while. 39. don't forget to tell us we're beautiful. 40. The "little things" in a relationship are really the biggest. 42.Don't screw us over...especially if we have an older brother or protective guy friends...they will hunt you down and kill you. 43.If you're gonna look at other girls, at least make sure we don't see you do it. 44. No girl just wants to be your "friend with benefits". 45. We're sensitive.. 46. One word when it comes to smoking...-'quit.'- 47. We reserve the right to hate all of your ex-girlfriends. 48. If we happen to trip, fall, etc, while wearing the exceptionally high shoes that we love, go ahead and laugh...we will be...that is unless we hurt ourselves... 49. we can't swallow our pride... 50. the most important DON'T EVER CHEAT ON US...
Honestly, i don't know how to start dis one... nyweiz since i started my weblog putting an articles 'bout friendships 'nd reading the posts ‘bout the quatrojob (our section) by my friend (arjel) on her weblog(
http://www.xanga.com/arjel_22) I started to feel that there is sumthing wrong, the mix emotion I never had before.. I really can’t explain what’s goin’ on w/ me, maybe b’coz I’m not yet ready to accept d’ fact dat we’re goin’ to live our own lives ‘nd we need to separate n’ have our own ways… I don’t want to leave, it doesn’t mean dat I don’t want 2 graduate but uhh never mind… nyweiz I felt bad when me n’ my grade school friends graduated n’ separated … but dis tym it’s different I find it much harder…
I don’t know wat 2 do 4 d’ next 2 months of our school year its kinda hard, believe me…
for me the hardest word to say is "goodbye" …(actually the hardest word to say is sorry but for now it’s gudbye…)… as I imagining saying goodbye to my friends, my fellow classmates it makes my heart aches… how can u leave those people hus been a part of ur lyf…? d’ 4 yrs of friendship…? d’ 10 yrs of friendship…? And so on…
how can u leave those people who makes u laugh and d’ same way makes u cry… d’ people u trust d’ most…. D’ people hu makes u strong ‘n makes u weak… d’ advices... d’ times dat u r in love… d’ times u r in sorrows… d’ days u r happy n da days u r in pain…
d’ 4 hours on the phone talking ‘bout some foolish things… d’ parties… d’ cute ‘n also freaky poses we had in front of d’ cam… d’ problems we’ve shared… d’ swimming…. D’ assignments that we shares a lot… d’ examination days…
That’s why I find it hard to say goodbye… I don’t want 2 say bye-bye to those people who treated me as their lil’ sis… ‘n for those people dat makes me feel that I am special… I don’t want to say goodbye for those people I love… n’ for the happiest, craziest saddest and freakiest moments I ever had with them…
maybe someday I will accept the fact of saying goodbye but for now I WON’T…
Jan. 5, 2006 - some friendly tips for friendship...
Now that you've hit teenhood, your friends are the most important part of your life. They are the peeps you run to, the peeps who decide your every move. You'd rather be with them than anyone else and you trust them with your deepest, darkest secrets. Right?
What's a bestfriend anyway? Do you really have any best friends? Are you a good bestfriend? Being a good friend takes character and loyalty. Yet being a good friend isa very difficult goal, particularly during your teen years. Peer pressure. Cliques and groups. The temptation to gossip. These are all very real obstacles on the road to being a trustworthy bestfriend. And you know the saying, "To have a good friend, you first have to be one."
Friendly Tip #1: Get To Know Your Friends. You say you know who your friends are? Well, you might know what period they have English or the combination to their locker but do you really know what makes them tick? Understanding who your friends are will help you be a better friend to them.
Friendly Tip #2: Believe half of what you read and none of what you hear! Actually, that's an old saying but it still fits! A true friend doesn't succumb to rumors, half-truths and judgments about people they care about. Don¹t judge a friend without knowing the truth.
Friendly Tip #3: Know Who You Can Trust. People come in all shapes and sizes. And some people are just born gossips. Astrid may be great fun at the Mall but don¹t test your friendship by telling her secrets. Where do you fit in? Are secrets safe with you?
Friendly Tip #4: Nobody's Perfect! Everyone deserves a second (and maybe third, fourth, etc) chance. You and your friends are bound to make mistakes. Best friends know how to say "I¹m sorry" and "I forgive you."
Friendly Tip #5: Don¹t Stress! You know, sometimes bestfriends just want to have fun! Spend time with your favorite friends. Go shopping. Make up a dance routine. Pig out! Forget all about the little things that might bother you. In the end, a real bestfriend is someone who makes you laugh!
an article from a website... oops i can't remember the name of the website...
Jan. 4, 2006 - mY tOp 10 fave sOngs EVER>>>...w/ my fave lines..
10. stick wit u… - pussycat dolls
So don't cha worry about people hanging around they ain't bring us down
I know you, and you know me and that's why, that's why I say
Nobody gonna love me better, I must stick wit u forever Nobody gonna take me higher, I must stick wit u You know how to appreciate me, I must stick wit u my baby Nobody ever made me feel this way, I must stick wit u…
9. no ordinary love… - jennifer love hewitt
I get so weak when you look at me I get lost inside your eyes sometimes the magic is hard to believe but you're here before my weary eyes you brought joy to my world set me so free I want you to understand you are every breath that I breathe
This is not your ordinary no ordinary love I was not prepared enough to fall so deep in love This is not your ordinary no ordinary love You were the first to touch my heart Made everything right again with your extraordinary love …
8. these days… - bamboo
these days I seem to find
million reason to sit around and waste my mind
I know what’s being said and that’s all fine you tell me to get a life
Do you understand the weigth of that line
So take me for all I am
coz’ I can find my own way big date tonight there’s no tomorrow
so lets leave it on the line
coz’ there’s time it’s not too late, to change direction
turn your heads on so lets leave it on the line
there something within it’s telling me that I’m just playing it too cool
I could pretty much lose everything
oh I never had an apple that tasted so, so sweet
given a chance to choose take me for all I am
coz’ I can find my own way big date tonight there’s no tomorrow
so lets leave it on the line
coz’ there’s time it’s not too late, to change direction
turn your heads on so lets leave it on the line
today I am free, free to fly, free to be what they tell me I cannot be
happy birthday to me…
7.
wherever you will go… - the calling
Maybe I'll find out a way to make it back someday To want you to guide you through the darkest of your days If a great wave shall fall and fall upon us all Then I hope there's someone out there who can bring me back to you If I could then I would I'll go wherever you will go Way up high or down low I'll go wherever you will go…
6. mata… - mojofly
wag ng paikutin ang isa’t-isa, lahat ng bagay ay malinaw na
hindi na rin kailangan pagpilitan pa, di mo na kailangan pang magsalita
nakita ko na lahat dito pinahihiwatig ng mata mo
salamat na lamang sa iyo…
5.
war of hearts and mind… - bamboo
War of hearts and minds 7 days later I still can’t find Truth and peace How will I find my way They say love, love without fear Is said to be the key But just look around No clear answer to be found…
4.
gemini… - spongecola
come a little closer flicker in flight
we'll have about an inch's spacebut i'm here i can breathe in
what you breathe out
let me know if i'm doing this right
let me know if my grip's too tight
let me know if i can stay all of my life
let me know if dreams can come true
let me know if this one's your's too
coz' i see itand i feel it right here
and i feel you right here
the vacuous nightsteps aside to give meaning to gemini's dreaming
the moon on its backand the seeminglyveiled room's lit
by the same star…
3.
weak… - jojo
Time after time after time I've tried to fight it But your love is strong, it keeps on holdin' on Resistance is down when you're around, pride's fading In my condition I don't want to be alone
Cause my heart starts beating triple time With thoughts of loving you on my mind I can't figure out just what to do When the cause and cure is you…
2.
I’m missing you… - meja
I miss your love since you’ve been goneI find it hard to go on
The summer sky don’t mean a thing, I thought I’d always be strong
I got this feeling inside and it’s making my heart cry
Coz’ I’m missing you and it’s making me blue
Coz’ I’m missing you what can I do a thousand miles away from you…
1. ever after… - bonnie bailey
Nothing compares to the good times Feels like we’re floating when the rest have to climb You made me believe in love and not the perfect kind A real messy beautiful twisted sunshine Emotions volcanic eruptions We both still care so we’re still alive Tunnel vision, determination I want you I want to make it right
1. boys do not care about your ex. they don't care what he looked like, what music he listened to, what he didn't do for you or where you two went on your 2 year anniversary. We do not care. The most obvious would be that you're comparing them, and no guy wants to constantly be compared. So, are you tired of meeting jerks and scaring off the good guys? Well, then stop doing this.
2. Your friends are the deadly venom that kill relationships in a given timeframe. Regardless if your council of gossippers approve of a guy initially, they always find a way to bring a developing relationship crashing to the ground. It always starts with he-said, she-said and rumors by word of their mouths, but then it gets complicated when they secretly make a move on the guy that you're after. And if he rejects, he'll be called a jerk for hitting on your friend. It happens. Every girl that meets a guy and is overly engulfed in her friendships has a 'close friend' that wants nothing more than to steal her man.
3. Ladies, you need to come to terms with the fact that all guys aren't mumbling morons with a sub 100 IQ. Most of us are well rounded and we are interested in something unique in one way or another. And, if it doesn't seem all that unique to you, it still means a lot to us. listening to sob stories about you and your friends who said what about whom, then you'd best be willing to enjoy a game of football. Furthermore, don't reject something as soon as its brought to your attention because you aren't familiar with it. listen to new music for once in your life and open your mind as well as your hearts.
4. Last but certainly not least is the loss of chivalry. Girls do not seem to appreciate a guy going out of his way to make sure he opens every door and pays for everything. Ladies, you may not particularly like someone buying you things or seeming like you need a guy to do things for you but you have to shut up and deal with it. In reality, guys know that you're more than capable of paying our own way, opening our own heavy door and getting in the car ourself. But understand that if a guy is doing this for you, he is making an effort to treat you right. So for you to actually show your annoyance is a huge disrespect.
Jan. 3, 2006 - How 2 stay bezfriends after high school…^_^
Talk w/ ur friends about their plan 4 d’ summer n’ nxt yr…
make sure u get ol their contact in4mation.[address, phone number, e-mail n’ etc.] b4 graduation…
do sumthing special 2gether b4 d’ end of d’ summer…
take lots of photos… hmmm! memories ha…
don’t let d’ month go by w/o contacting ur friend…
b honest w/ them ‘bout d’ new things u xprience, evn if u don’t feel lyk they can relate…
wen u have d’ opportunity, do sumthing special again… make dis a tradition..
then finally repeat ol steps 4 d’ rest of ur lyf…
--- staying bezfriends does not mean dat ur friendship will stay d’ same. As u get older ‘nd change over time, so will ur friendship. Make ur friendship a priority. It may not b as convenient as it was in highshool…---
Jan. 1, 2006 - 10 RuLes oF mOst pArEnts 4 dAtInG theiR dAuGhTeRs...
RULE 1...
If you pull into my driveway and honk you'd better be delivering a package,because you're sure not picking anything up.
RULE 2...
You do not touch my daughter in front of me. You may glance at her,so long as you do not peer at anything below her neck. If you cannot keep your eyes or hands off of my daughter's body,I will remove them.
RULE 3...
I am aware that it is considered fashionable for boys of your age to wear their trousers so loosely that they appear to be falling off their hips. Please don't take this as an insult, but you and all of your friends are complete idiots. Still, I want to be fair and open minded about this issue, so I propose this compromise: You may come to the door with your underwear showing and your pants ten sizes to big, and I will not object. However, in order to ensure that your clothes do not, in fact come off during the course of you date with my daughter, I will take my electric nail gun and fasten your trousers securely in place to your waist.
RULE 4...
I'm sure you've been told that in today's world, sex without utilizing a "Barrier method" of some kind can kill you. Let me elaborate, when it comes to sex, I am the barrier, and I will kill you.
RULE 5...
It is usually understood that in order for us to get to know each other, we should talk about sports, politics and other issues of the day. Please do not do this. The only information I require from you is an indication of when you expect to have my daughter safely back at my house,and the only word I need from you on this subject is: "early"
RULE 6...
I have no doubt you are a popular fellow, with many opportunities to date other girls. This is fine with me as long as it is okay with my daughter. Otherwise,once you have gone out with my little girl, you will continue to date no one but her until she is finished with you.If you make her cry, I will make you cry.
RULE 7...
As you stand in my front hallway, waiting for my daughter to appear, and more than an hour goes by, do not sigh and fidget.If you want to be on time for the movie, you should not be dating. My daughter is putting on her makeup, a process than can take longer than painting the Golden Gate Bridge. Instead of just standing there, why don't you do something useful, like changing the oil in my car?
RULE 8...
The following places are not appropriate for a date with my daughter: Places where there are beds, sofas, or anything softer than a wooden stool. Places where there is darkness. Places where there is dancing,holding hands or happiness. Places where the ambient temperature is warm enough to introduce my daughter to wear shorts, tank tops, midriff T-shirts or anything other than overalls, a sweater and a goose down parka--zipped up to her throat. Movies with a strong romantic or sexual theme are to be avoided; movies which features chain saws are okay. Hockey games are okay. Old folks home are better.
RULE 9...
Do not lie to me.I may appear to be potbellied, balding, middle-aged, imwitted has-been. But on issues relating to my daughter, I am the all- knowing, merciless God of your universe. If I ask you where you are going and with whom, you have one chance to tell me the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I have a shotgun, a shovel, and five acres behind the house. Do not trifle with me.
RULE 10...
Be afraid. Be very afraid. It takes very little for me to mistake the sound of your car in the driveway for a chopper coming in over a rice paddy near Hanoi. When my Agent Orange starts acting up, the voices in my head frequently tell me to clean the guns as I wait for you to bring my daughter home. As soon as you pull into the driveways you should exit the car with both hands in plain sight. Speak the perimeter password, announce in a clear voice that you have brought my daughter home safely and early.
Dec. 31, 2005 - 50 things girl should know about guys...
1. Guys hate sluts. 2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" - two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone. 3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. 4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes. 5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. 6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him. 7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method. 8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to. 9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved. 10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend. 11. Guys get jealous easily. 12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think. 13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. 14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. 15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway. 16.We girls are guys' weaknesses. 17. Guys are very open about themselves. 18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long. 19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend. 20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. 21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. 22. Guys love us more than we love them if they are serious in your relationships. 23. Guys will brag about anything. 24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you. 25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant. 26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if 1 guy's confused, then we're all confused. 27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships. 28. Try to be as straightforward as possible. 29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up. 30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl. 31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key. 32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that usually girls read and take as their basis of experience. 33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped. 34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside. 35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that. 36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me." 37. Guys don't really have final decisions. 38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up. 39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you. 40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something. 41. Guys like femininity not feebleness. 42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do. 43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes. 44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily. 45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much. 46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys. 47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more. 48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them. 49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day. 50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.
the mix emotion I never had before.. I really can’t explain what’s goin’ on w/ me, maybe b’coz I’m not yet ready to accept d’ fact dat we’re goin’ to live our own lives ‘nd we need to separate n’ have our own ways… I don’t want to leave, it doesn’t mean dat I don’t want 2 graduate but uhh never mind… nyweiz I felt bad when me n’ my grade school friends graduated n’ separated … but dis tym it’s different I find it much harder
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… d’ people u trust d’ most…. D’ people hu makes u strong ‘n makes u weak… d’ advices... d’ times dat u r in love
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about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
