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A Collection Of Poetry, Quotations, And Songs About The Two Most Favorite Topic Of All ... LIFE and LOVE
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-= 10 ADVISABLE STEPS FOR A MORE SUCCESSFUL AND ENJOYABLE RELATIONSHIP =-
1. Be Realistic About Each Other -
Don't try to turn your partner into something he or sheis not. Let's
just face it, guys, there is only one Pamela Anderson inthe world and
your girl's physical appearance would never changeovernite, even with
the help of those so-called regimens or treatments.Just give them a
break and accept whatever built they have. Andladies, Brad
Pitt has already been taken, so you're gonna have todo with what your
guy is like. Chill out! Love each other for what youare ... There's
definitely more to your partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always Talk Things Out -
The least thing a normal guy would hate to do (generallyspeaking). But
for girls, it is just one of their favorite past timesor sometimes a
mode of resolving issues. It maybe very hard for somepeople to express
how they truly feel (good or bad) ... it is essentialfor each on of us
to learn how to do in one way or another. This wouldnot only make your
partner understand you more (or vice versa) butwould also help you get
to know yourself as well. When you stoptalking to each other from
the heart ... Beware! It might be thebeginning of the end.
3. Do Stuff Together -
Always make an effort to do things together. It may not be abig or
expensive one, just a simple movie, game, or window-shoppingwill do. As
long as you both are having fun doing it. If youprefer to spend
more time with your friends than with your partner,think things over
... you're relationship just seem to be driftingapart.
4. Meet Each Other Halfway -
It is understandable for couples to see some thingsdifferently, why
not? They got different brains and perspective ...Which unfortunately
sometimes results to a very long, unending, andmostly hurtful argument.
So, both parties gotta learn to meet eachother halfway ... There should
always be give and take ... Keep in mindthat in any argument, both
sides would always have their own thoughtsand points ... its just gonna
be useless to fight over on who's rightand who's wrong ...
5. Show Your Love -
Buy or do something special for each other once in a while ...flowers
or chocolates for the ladies ... homemade romantic dinner forthe guyz
... No matter how long you guyz have stayed together, continueon
showing your partner how much you really love him/her.
6. Respect Each Other - Stop
making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is you love tolaugh
at. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stopogling
at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respectingeach
other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury The Past -
Stop bringing up the past. No matter how memorable yourrelationship
with your ex is ... it would never be in yourcurrent
partner's line of interest. So focus and behappy with your
partner now and dont ever compare ...
8. Sit On Your Jealousy -
All of us go thru spells of insecurity especially during thebeginning
of the relationship ... But dont ever translate thisinsecurity to
jealousy. If you find yourself going through yourpartner's mails or
drawers, and eavesdropping on conversations ...there is definitely
something wrong ... with you! Jealousy is like apoison that would
slowly spread and kill your beautiful relationship.Love always has to
have trust in it ...
9. Keep Your Commitments To Each Other -
If you're in a relationship, make it to a point to prioritizeyour
partner. As much as possible, dont disappoint them by makingpromises
you cant keep. If you do ... your partner would feelunimportant and
ignored ... and im sure you would never want that tohappen.
10. Be Honest - Honesty
doesnt necessarily mean you have to scowl at how your partnerlooks that
morning ... Honesty by expressing yourself clearly withoutbeing mean or
cruel ... When youre mad, you gotta be honest and open upon how you
truly feel in a non-hysterical manner. Being honest and openwith your
thoughts and feelings would be a very big help to gain notonly your
partner's trust but also other people...
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Posted: 2:00 AM, Sep. 27, 2005 |
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